08 December 2011

It's just your feeling!

You know what's real problem with this world? It's not from outside. It's from inside. A problem is not a problem until the inside of you makes it a problem. Some things like stress, worry, and anxiety. It's all from the inside. It comes from your feeling!

Do you ever feel like everything is not gonna be okay although nothing bad happens? Are you ever so afraid that bad things are gonna happen when everything is just okay? Or, sometimes there's only a very small problem but you take it as a big problem and it makes you stressed? If your answer is yes, sometimes I feel that way, too. However, after I think again about it, actually it's just a feeling.Your feeling makes every thing a problem. It is something inside you that always tries to affect your emotion, and in the end it makes you feel stressed or worry.

The truth is, feeling is something inside you that always tries to let you bother every single thing in your life, so everything looks complicated.

Don't you think it's very funny when your feeling always "plays" you? You can be happy, then sad, then suddenly happy again, and then suddenly sad again. It's natural. Everyone has feeling. But, you should not rely on it. Your feeling is not your boss. Don't let everything depend on it because it's not always right.

The thing is, feelings are soft. It's fragile. If you keep saying yes to your feeling, it's very easy to bring you down. It's true that feeling can make people happy too. Happiness is also a feeling. But, everyone has problems. Feeling is more likely to lead people to bad thoughts than the good ones. When there's nothing bad really happens, your feeling will try to tell you "What if tomorrow something bad happens?" And when there's only a small problem, your feeling will tell you "It's not small. You should not take it easy. It's gonna be worse if you don't do this or do that." I can say that your feeling always tries to "bully" you.

Sometimes everything is just okay, but your feeling makes it dramatic, then you become worry.

So, one thing you can do is to stop letting your feeling make your life a mess. Start to be relax in thinking and making decision. Use a right attitude to lead your act. It's not your circumstance or things around you that you should control. It's the inside of you, because a problem is not a problem until the inside of you takes it as a problem.

Don't let your feeling tell you that it's not okay when everything is just okay. Learn to control your feeling and not be controlled by it. It's you who should control your feeling, not your feeling who controls you.

9 comments:

my name is LiNa~ said...

Wew, always feel blessed after read your blog.. Nice and really acceptable for many things, problems, in life.. Another nice post from your blog! :D

wilzkanadi said...

Hi Lina! Thank you. I'm so happy to know that. Nice to know you. God bless you :)

Adherer said...

That article should change your life:

http://adherer.wordpress.com/2011/11/28/object-of-creation/

Princececess said...

This article really fits on me! Stress, anxiety and worry controlled my life as a college student. Too much worry about grades and for my future :|But I do believe that God is there for me to help me in every trials that I get :) Thank you for your inspiring blog and tweets :) Once you publish a book, I hope it will be available in the Philippines.hihi - Princess :)

Princececess said...

This article really fits on me! Stress, anxiety and worry controlled my life as a college student. Too much worry about grades and for my future :|But I do believe that God is there for me to help me in every trials that I get :) Thank you for your inspiring blog and tweets :) Once you publish a book, I hope it will be available in the Philippines.hihi - Princess :)

Andres said...

Love it...

:)

Qorri Aina said...

i am sooo in love with your blog! you and your post are so inspire me x)

Qorri Aina said...

i am sooo in love with your blog! you and your post are so inspire me x)

Qorri Aina said...

i am sooo in love with your blog! you and your post are so inspire me x)