It's not about how to find your happiness, it's about how you make yourself feel the happiness.
There are some people really know how to be happy. When they have problems, they just try to keep being happy and thankful people, and face them with good attitudes. They just don't want the problems rob their happiness. They keep being positive and enjoy their journey until they reach the 'out-of-problem' place. When they already reach that place, of course nobody can make them unhappy. They are just in the happy place they're looking for, they don't waste the time they have. What a happy life.
On the other hand, some people are very difficult to feel happy no matter what they face. When they don't have some things they want, they are not happy. And when they have the things they want, they still lose their happiness because they're too worried that something will steal the happiness. They're too afraid they will lose it. The question is, then how to make them happy? Every circumstance just doesn't lead them to the happiness they want.
That's what I said, happiness is about your choice. Some people say they can only enjoy their happiness when it becomes secure. The truth is, life is too mysterious and unpredictable so nobody can tell you how secure life will be. Now, when will you be happy? It takes forever to place you at the 'perfect happiness'.
Some people say they can only enjoy their happiness when it becomes secure. The truth is, life is too mysterious and unpredictable so nobody can tell you how secure life will be.
I admit, sometimes I'm a kind of person who also think like that. I'm worried of losing so many things, until I realize it only steals the happiness I have right now. Worrying like that just makes me sad, and if I don't think about that, I will not be sad, and still be happy. So, what's the point in chasing happiness if it costs the happiness you have?
So, what's the point in chasing happiness if it costs the happiness you have?
After all, happiness is not found. It is made. Everybody can make it if they want. They just need to be willing to feel happy. So from now, just be happy and thankful no matter what you have :)